The perfect 6 pack abs

My brother has the perfect workout routine.  This has left him with 6 pack abs and all else that comes with true balance of mind, body, and spirit.  He has found his nitch, and it was not easy.  He has a true love for what he does, but along with that love comes other positive perks like discipline, compassion, and full use of his imagination.  He is no coward to the weights and kettlebells.  He loves those things so much.  I, on the other hand was not so lucky in love.  It seems that all which I love has been taken from me, and I am left desperate and seemingly alone for now with only hope to regain what I have lost over the years.